I’ll be over here all day.
I can’t remember a time when I didn’t get flack for something. lol
Yeah, that super critical thing you do? You’re doing it again. It’s pissing me off. Again. I’m almost tempted to just change this into a personal blog to take off the pressure of being politically correct.
A sex drive is by definition wanting sex. Orientation deals with who with. Asexuality is an orientation, not a lack of sex drive.
Uhm, no. Sex drive is libido. Ability to experience arousal/pleasure.
Asexuality is an orientation; sex drive is independent of being ace. A gay dude, for example, could have a very low sex drive; that doesn’t make him asexual. Likewise, an asexual person could want sex, but not feel attracted to a particular gender.
I wasn’t saying that. I know I have a sex drive but don’t want sex.
Yes asexuals masturbate.
Mutual masturbation? The answer to that would be different from person to person. Me? No.
There we go.
Well considering sexual attraction is the desire for sexual contact with other people, I would say not. Or maybe I’m dumb.
I’ve heard asexuals can have fetishes.
Yes. Asexuals still have sex, mostly for their sexual partner or having kids.
If your asking if you can experience romantic attraction to one gender and sexual attraction to another gender, then yes. However, if you experience sexual attraction, you wouldn’t be asexual. If sexual attraction is a rare occurrence then grey-asexual is an accurate label.
Well first, I don’t think it’s asexuality that is causing your aversion to touch. But just tell him exactly how you feel and be truthful.
sigh~ Okay, so here is a message for everyone:
I really don’t want people to keep asking me who they are because I don’t know, and sexuality is really complicated. I’m not you and can’t decipher your feelings. I can give you the resources, definitions, etc but that’s about it. I’m not good with advice and the like. You are the only person that can figure it out for yourself.
If your looking for a label for your identity, look here (it also include definitions for attraction):
(check the notes because sometimes my followers have answers)
Be yourself. Don’t force yourself into anything.