Be yourself. Don’t force yourself into anything.
Yup. Orientation is not about behaviour.
1500 followers. Milestone achieved.
Next is 2000. Don’t know if we’ll make it there but whatever.
By attractive I’m going to assume you mean romantic, though there are multiple types of attraction. As long as you don’t experience sexual attraction, you’re asexual (if that’s what you want).
Well for one, the file was on my computer while I was sorting old files cleaning my computer. So when I found it, I decided to posted it. Reason there is no sources is because I don’t remember where I got it. As well, I haven’t been exploring the tags so I didn’t know it was posted recently.
Edit: I just checked that post and the source doesn’t direct well. It’s just going to the front page of someone’s tumblr blog, so I question whether that is the original source anyway. I couldn’t find it going through their archives.
I feel like I should remind that repulsion is not the same as asexuality.
Asexuality is about sexual attraction which you can read about here:
If you don’t experience sexual attraction, you are asexual, and that is how you know.
Finding you orientation requires you to do a bit of self-discovery. I’m not you, so therefore I can’t tell you about your feelings.
Well first, it’s not something you should feel ashamed of. Nobody is “normal”. There is something good to be said for people who don’t obsess over lust, because there are much more important things in life.
That “freak” look you talk of is more about them not understanding rather than seeing you in a negative light. As sexuality is foreign to us, asexuality is foreign to them.
The worst that people encounter when coming out is people misunderstanding or not believing it is a real thing. The way to combat that is by educating them.
But there is no urge to “come out” if you don’t feel comfortable with it. Your orientation is more your business than theirs.
When you do come out though, make sure to express your confidence in who you are. If they sense you are unsure, they will try to tell you that you aren’t asexual. If someone gives you a negative response, forget them. They aren’t worth your time.
Why can’t you?
Computer spring cleaning, if you can tell.